A strong, intimate relationship with anyone requires time. It is no different when it comes to our relationship with God. The more time you spend with Him, the closer you will become to Him. With that, you will find, that the things of this world that once could have easily influenced you in a negative way will be limited in their power. I encourage you to spend time with Him daily. Your relationship and your spirit will be transformed; and it will impact everything and everyone around you in a way that will glorify Him.